One Functioning Body

August 11, 2024
Pastor Jack

human kindness

Ephesians 4:17–32

This therefore I say and testify in the Lord, that you no longer walk as the Gentiles walk: in the futility of their mind, being darkened in understanding, alienated from the life of God, because of the ignorance that is in them, because of the hardness of their heart, who, becoming callous, gave themselves over to licentiousness, for the pursuit of all uncleanness in greediness. But you did not learn Christ in this way, if indeed you have heard about him, and you were taught by him (just as truth is in Jesus), that you take off, according to your former way of life, the old man, who is being destroyed according to deceitful desires, be renewed in the spirit of your mind, and put on the new man (in accordance with God), who is created in righteousness and holiness from the truth. Therefore, putting aside the lie, speak truth each one of you with his neighbor, because we are members of one another. Be angry and do not sin; do not let the sun set on your anger, nor give place to the devil. The one who steals must steal no longer, but instead must labor, working with his own hands what is good, so that he may have something to share with the one who has need. No rotten word must proceed from your mouth, but only something good for the building up of the need, in order that it may give grace to those who hear, and do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. All bitterness, and rage, and wrath, and clamor, and abusive speech, must be removed from you, together with all wickedness. Become kind toward one another, compassionate, forgiving one another, just as also God in Christ has forgiven you.

Our New Life in Christ

Ephesians 4:17

Now this I say and testify in the Lord, that you must no longer walk as the Gentiles do, in the futility of their minds.

  • Why do you think Paul is calling out the Gentiles here?
  • What is he trying to show us?

Ephesians 4:18

They are darkened in their understanding, alienated from the life of God because of the ignorance that is in them, due to their hardness of heart.

  • What does this “…darkened in their understanding” mean to you?
  • In what way are we “…alienated from the life of God?”
  • What is ignorance?
  • Do you recall the speeding in your car illustration?
    • Recount it for us in your own words.
    • How do we harden our hearts?

Ephesians 4:19

They have become callous and have given themselves up to sensuality, greedy to practice every kind of impurity.

  • What does Paul mean by “…have become callous”?

Ephesians 4:20–23

But that is not the way you learned Christ!— 21 assuming that you have heard about him and were taught in him, as the truth is in Jesus, 22 to put off your old self, which belongs to your former manner of life and is corrupt through deceitful desires, 23 and to be renewed in the spirit of your minds,

  • What does this mean to you?
    • What is this “…way you learned Christ”?
    • In what ways are we changed when we know Christ?
    • How can we “put off the old self”?
    • How can we “be renewed in the spirit of your minds”?
    • Recall the illustration of a wedding and the less obvious changes that happen.

Ephesians 4:24–27

and to put on the new self, created after the likeness of God in true righteousness and holiness. 25 Therefore, having put away falsehood, let each one of you speak the truth with his neighbor, for we are members one of another. 26 Be angry and do not sin; do not let the sun go down on your anger, 27 and give no opportunity to the devil.

  • What is this “put on the new self” stuff?
    • How do we do that?
    • What are some practical ways we can begin to think less of ourselves and more of others?
    • Let’s talk about what it means to “speak truth with his neighbor”.
      • What is truth?
      • Who is your neighbor?
    • How can we “give no opportunity to the devil”?

Ephesians 4:28–32

Let the thief no longer steal, but rather let him labor, doing honest work with his own hands, so that he may have something to share with anyone in need. 29 Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear. 30 And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. 31 Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. 32 Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.

  • According to this passage, why are we “doing honest work with his own hands”?
  • How can we apply this “no corrupting talk…building up” idea?
  • How do we “grieve the Holy Spirit of God”?
  • How can we “be kind to one another”?

Thoughts for Reflection

  • Do you want a good life?
  • Do you want joy?
  • Put away the old self, the anger and the selfishness.
  • Put on the new self, the holiness and the righteousness.
  • Are we living any differently than before we knew Christ?
  • How often do we wear a mask in our lives?
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